Scammers use romance and mail order bride tactics to fool men into writing continuous letters and chats with the promise of marriage. I was talking to one girl for 5 months and decided to test her. Note that it probably was never a girl at all but some one in a chat room somewhere. I had my friend open a profile and chat with the same girl or whoever it was and she said the same things to him, ie promises of marriage and romance while trying to convince him to keep writing and chatting which costs alot of money that they stole from me with fake promises. Please help me stop this from happening to more men, thanks. I can prove all this with the letters from both mine and my friends profiles on the site.