My husband and I were married at the time this started about 12 years. He and Cara had dated in high school and the relationship ended because she cheated on him. Him and her started talking and texting and the phone then of course one thing let to another and “The rest is history” We tried to work it out but once trust is broken it is broken. I caught him talking and texting her, and when I confronted him he stated they were just talking that she was going through a divorce and nothing more. I told him I wanted it to stop and he promised it would. A few months later same thing….and this went on. || for years. He always lied and told me he loved me and wanted to be with me. Of course because we had a child I tried to make it work. After several years she finally admitted they were having sex and had been. Of course I was devastated, I guess I knew it all along but didn’t want to admit it. Finally after fighting for a marriage that was over, I decided to file for divorce and move on. That was THE BEST decision ever!! I met a great man and I am remarried now and happier than I have ever been.