So here it goes .. my husband Jeffrey and I have been married for over 20 plus years .. I believe he started to go thru midlife crisis … Here in New Bern NC they have a gathering called Mumfest where they met. So sum it all up .. she found out he was and still is married but that didnít stop her from pursuing him .. I know sheís not the only one heís been with but itís amazing to me that women like this think itís ok to chase a married man !! No integrity – morals or values !! Disgusting !!